I N S A N I T Y <-- Could This Be You?
I know you’ve heard this one before:
The definition of insanity:
Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
Did you ever in a million years think that this could be YOU, yes YOU? That you could fall into such a definition as the word, ‘insanity’?
I for one never thought I could. Well, I not only fell into this definition, I was submerged in it for months while in dating mode.
Back when I was single and dating, there was a period when I experienced a lot of frustration and disappointment. I was dating and meeting one ‘your not doing it for me’ guy after another. And for months, I kept doing the same thing over and over again.
From the same dating approach, to meeting the same kind of men, to having the same unfulfilling conversations, to keeping the same profile, etc. Even when meeting men offline (you know, the real world stuff) by just being out and about, I was going to the same places, doing the same ol’ thing and meeting the same ol’ people. Even though I enjoyed meeting my girlfriends, over and over again, I was just not meeting nor experiencing anything remotely interesting ‘when it came to dating’.
I was attracting every ‘your not doing it for me’ man you could ever imagine. One after the other. Month after month. And, falling into that definition of insanity, I was doing the same thing over and over again while expecting different results.
It sort of felt like ‘Groundhog ‘Dating’ Day’ in my world. Does this sound familiar at all?
Well, it wasn’t until I woke MYSELF up and realized that my approach was ‘me not showing up for me, this entire time’!
I felt called to go deep within my soul, my heart and my core values to what holds most true for me. Once I focused on me, I knew what I needed to do. I needed to make some shifts from within and how I was showing up ‘for me’. And I needed to change my dating strategy to align with that.
That is just what I did. I put forth what held most true to me and shifted how I was showing up for myself AND being back in the game of dating. Once I did this, everything started to change!
I finally started to enjoy the ride, have fun and actually appreciate the dating phase and meeting different people in general. All while I was happily rocking out the other areas in my life as a ‘single woman’. Another empowering shift! And the best part, this is when the intriguing, interesting and potential men started to show up. AhhhhhMEN!
If you are experiencing frustration when it comes to dating and have not revisited your dating approach and how you are showing up back in the game of dating, then TODAY is an exciting day for you.
I am opening up my calendar over this next week for YOU to ‘get YOUR dating strategy refreshed’ for free. It’s amazing how just a few tweaks can make all the difference for you. How awesome does that sound?
Sometimes we are not even aware how we are putting ourselves out there when it comes to dating, what we are doing and how we are showing up or not showing up ‘for ourselves’. I for one, wasn’t aware either. But I want to shift that for you.
If this dating strategy free refresh is something that you feel called to, jump in now ~ Yes ~ I’m ready!
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