Are You Choosing ‘Safety’ Over Love?
Well, it’s time to let go of that shell. I’ve not only awakened to the fact that linking it to feeling safe in protecting my heart was just a subconscious illusion, but I also learned that deepening my level of connecting with others is letting go of that shell while also gaining a whole new level of freedom in my relationships.
You may not even be aware (as I wasn’t), but if you are, you’re making it next to impossible for that man, men and others to really see you.
And guess what? The shell (the wall, the guard) is not keeping you safe and you don’t need it to. Aha Moment! It’s just keeping you from getting close to others and letting “real love” in. And if you do have ‘a shell’, I bet you’ve been playing small and hiding the full you from others. Does that sound familiar at all?
When you are looking to connect with a new guy, someone you may already know or as you continue to date and meet new ‘potentials’, if you stay in your shell, the connection will stay dim. ‘Other people’ you wish to connect to, need to feel you! You will be much more relatable, enticing and attractive when you remove that shell (shield, layer of protection, whatever you call it) and let others connect with you and your heart.
Don’t forget life happens. Truly connecting with others and finding “real love” is you taking a risk and if you truly want it, you need to go in full throttle (a.k.a. “no protective shells included”).
As I continue to ride this healing growth wave that I’m on, I’ll have much more to share with you.
P.S. ~ This will be my first topic at my next Live Coffee Talks (Private ‘Back In The Game of Dating’ Facebook Group) resuming in May. Join me here if you haven’t already done so.
P.S.S. ~ Wondering how to get out of your shell, or possibly what the hell I’m talking about when it comes to you even having a shell in order to build connections with someone on a whole new level? Don’t miss my Live FB Coffee Talks resuming in May. Click here to join me.